tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5040278615815783178.post915258984998289559..comments2024-03-18T16:36:18.126-04:00Comments on Woven by Words: Finding My Sexy Again ~ Where I Lost ItMimi Nhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16860967608697974293noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5040278615815783178.post-46178240160908103272011-08-24T23:16:55.666-04:002011-08-24T23:16:55.666-04:00Like you, I saw small things at the beginning of m...Like you, I saw small things at the beginning of my first marriage that should have warned me but I ignored them. Over the years we were married, he became more controlling and I lost more and more confidence in myself. When it ended, I wasn't sure I could trust myself to know a good man when I saw one.<br />So here's what I did. I found my hobbies and passions again. I did things becauseAnn @CreativeBoomerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03282289735132274728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5040278615815783178.post-9549356903917256622011-08-24T19:22:21.203-04:002011-08-24T19:22:21.203-04:00I really enjoyed your story. I truly wish you succ...I really enjoyed your story. I truly wish you success in your love life. Definitely, get your sexy back!Cleverly Changinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12180433226647594167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5040278615815783178.post-84768459277828923212011-08-24T18:25:34.884-04:002011-08-24T18:25:34.884-04:00Good for you!!! I ditched my equally control-frea...Good for you!!! I ditched my equally control-freak ex about 12 years ago now. I've been married 10 years now and couldn't be happier! You'll get your sexy back!Eat. Live. Laugh. and sometimes shop!https://www.blogger.com/profile/07646417891662791417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5040278615815783178.post-12440359618808789712011-08-24T17:58:46.605-04:002011-08-24T17:58:46.605-04:00Great post! I changed my hair - in length or color...Great post! I changed my hair - in length or color - after every break up before meeting my husband. :-)<br /><br />Stumbled!Charise @ I Thought I Knew Mamahttp://www.ithoughtiknewmama.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5040278615815783178.post-59758566151904308452011-08-24T17:49:54.636-04:002011-08-24T17:49:54.636-04:00I was waiting for this post. I am amazed you laste...I was waiting for this post. I am amazed you lasted as long as you did with this excuse for a man. Wow. You are gorgeous and I agree with the above commenter, don't rush into any relationship. Spend time on yourself, doing things just for you. Read shaybanks.com. I love her site and she has a great free e-book every women and girl should read about this. You will have to find the words to Alison Goldenhttp://alisongolden.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5040278615815783178.post-64964234022151329932011-08-24T16:27:37.823-04:002011-08-24T16:27:37.823-04:00It's time to put that bikini back on! stumbled...It's time to put that bikini back on! stumbled!The Budget Diethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11715666076590015643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5040278615815783178.post-9283085199077528592011-08-20T11:26:31.970-04:002011-08-20T11:26:31.970-04:00I think that you Rock just for writing this! As ye...I think that you Rock just for writing this! As yes it will be hard at times,but you will feel so much better just finding "You". At 42 you sure are not old~look at it as I new beginning for you. As I was with a very abusive man for over 15 years and I left when I was 29 and never looked back..I am now 51 years old~have raised 3 beautiful children on my own that have blessed me with 10 Deb Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12380876862191726011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5040278615815783178.post-30144598368459008792011-08-19T14:21:05.179-04:002011-08-19T14:21:05.179-04:00Hmmm, finding my sexy. Its different for everyone...Hmmm, finding my sexy. Its different for everyone and as strange as this may seem (because I sure don't look my best), I feel my best physically and emotionally after a long run. Whatever baggage or issues I had before I run gets forgotten and I focus on my surroundings, my breathing and my random thoughts of why the geese aren't afraid of me but are of the children at the park. I'mEast9thStreethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16685213731968253183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5040278615815783178.post-85868554441533392182011-08-19T14:17:39.328-04:002011-08-19T14:17:39.328-04:00I've know guys like that. I think the key to f...I've know guys like that. I think the key to finding the right relationship is to first be comfortable not in a relationship. Once you are ok being alone, Mr Right will show up unexpectadly.About a Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07739583436879835789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5040278615815783178.post-83139107247164854932011-08-19T13:32:48.390-04:002011-08-19T13:32:48.390-04:00Oh my gosh...my throat is all tight and I feel lik...Oh my gosh...my throat is all tight and I feel like I could welt up and cry.. My first husband left me when my boys were young (3) & 2 weeks old. He wasn't as controlling as yours...but he had the wandering eyes. And don't get me wrong...I love my present husband but I moved way too fast trying to replace the void. I have been remarried for almost 16 years...but it hasn't been Becky Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14075810147756384874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5040278615815783178.post-77508294111575111272011-08-19T01:00:31.994-04:002011-08-19T01:00:31.994-04:00Your ex sounds a lot like mine. Overcontrolling a...Your ex sounds a lot like mine. Overcontrolling and overpowering. The only piece of advice I can give you is to take this time to put yourself in the forefront. Although it's hard and will have nagging thoughts that you may be too old or no one will want someone with kids, don't let it get to you. I was sort of young when I divorced, 25, but thought no one would want me with three Terra Heckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01528404663373917950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5040278615815783178.post-20563618497029430542011-08-19T00:01:16.587-04:002011-08-19T00:01:16.587-04:00I wish you well with this new chapter in your life...I wish you well with this new chapter in your life. Unfortunately, I don't have any tips for you because I "lost" mine too. Let me know when you find yours.Adelinahttp://matterofcents.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5040278615815783178.post-74047453299617300392011-08-18T23:28:02.415-04:002011-08-18T23:28:02.415-04:00Mimi you rock! Your soon to be ex-husband is the ...Mimi you rock! Your soon to be ex-husband is the kind of guy I can't stand! <br />You look fabulous! Your a woman, a blogger, you go girl!Aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02556839136003847262noreply@blogger.com