The Right Guy ~ Where Oh Where Is He?

Last night I went to see a screening of Crazy, Stupid, Love. It was awesome! In the 13 yrs I’ve lived in Minnesota and gone to a movie, the crowd has never been interactive…until last night. We were all laughing so hard and clapping, it was awesome!

Did I mention I fell in love? With Ryan Gosling’s character. Trust me, when you watch this movie, you will too.

On the way home, my friend and I were discussing finding a guy, where to find him, what he’d be like and it only served to confuse me more.

What is my type? I’m not sure I even know. Is there really a specific type for one person. I’m actually attracted to guys who have opposite personality traits and qualities. When I think about it, I start battling with myself because both groups of guys have something that appeals to me.

The first guy, the one I really hope to meet is similar to me in many respects. I love people and want to be with someone who loves them too. Ok, not looooves them, but enjoys hanging out, going out to dinner or grilling at “our” place. He’s funny and makes me laugh. He likes getting out and doing things: hiking, movies, road trips, camping, etc. Loves sports and enjoys going to the games and watching them at home.

The second guy is mellow. He balances me out in a GOOD way, not like my ex. He’s reliable and dependable. He’s steady like a beating drum. I know what to expect. Not boring, but not WAAAAAH like I can be. He’s someone I can feel safe with. Why does it sound like I’m talking about a Labrador Retriever?

In general here’s what I’d like from THE guy:

• Loves the Lord
• Loves my kids…or at least tolerates them when they drive us crazy
• When I’m sick with the flu, he’s the one holding my hair and telling me I’m still beautiful.
• When PMS hits (and it does in spades monthly) he’ll be my calming force through the insanity
• Doesn’t try to control me. Been there done that and I’ll show him the door
• Doesn’t mind my social media life…or has one of his own

Yah, I know this is a list of probably what everyone woman wants and is looking for, but I feel like I need to get some of this down. I live out in the sticks and don’t see a lot of opportunity even though I work in a hardware store teeming with men. Too bad the only ones who ever ask me out are old enough to be my grandfather or give me the heebie jeebies!

I don’t go out to bars and wouldn’t want to meet someone there anyhow…unless it was Ryan Gosling and I was the one who changed his mind about being a player. I know all the guys at church. None of my friends knows someone in my age range, that’s available.

Man, I really hope I’m not stuck like this forever. If you’re single, and/or a single mom, how do you find someone to go out with? I’m not really interested in online dating as that’s how I met my ex. Any tips or tricks to get back into the game?

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Wordless Wednesday: Man It’s Humid

I’ve lived in MN for 13 yrs. The summers have had days that are hot, and sure it’s been humid on occasion. This past week I’ve seen something I’ve never seen before:

This is the outside of my front door looking from the inside.

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Kingston Technology Review

Until I received the Kingston Technology Data Traveler Locker+ I had never personally used a USB before. Shocking I know in this day and age, but true. I am seriously considering getting a laptop and there are a few items I’d like to move with me from my desktop to the laptop.

There are a number of things I didn’t consider before I tried using the Kingston. I had no clue how much a USB could hold. With an 8GB one, I think it’ll be some time before I get to the end of it! 8GB in such a small piece of hardware. I know, I’m still impressed with technology!

I hadn’t even considered that if someone found your USB drive laying on the ground somewhere they’d take it and use the information on it, not to see if they could find you to give it back, but use the information for their own purposes!

Thankfully, the Kingston Data Traveler Locker+ gives you that security. I found that out before I had even put anything on it. I forgot I had already set it up. When I went in and couldn’t remember any of my security information, I was offered to lose all the information on the Drive and start all over again. Glad I was able to retrieve my info! It was a great first hand experience seeing how the security works!

When I visited the Data Traveler Locker+ page, I wanted to get to know more about it. I wanted to understand all the potential it had to keep my information secure. I had to start at the beginning and that’s where the Instructional Video came in so handy! 

Here’s some information about the Kingston Technology Data Traveler Locker+:

Kingston knows memory

Kingston Technology is the world's independent memory leader. What's that mean for you? They know a thing or two about storing your important stuff and keeping your files safe. So whether you're storing photos and music for sharing on the go or protecting and transferring sensitive, Kingston has the memory you need.

Learn more about the Kingston DataTraveler Locker+ USB drive:

• Personal password setting to prevent unauthorized access (the drive reformats after 10 invalid attempts)
• Additional layer of protection with automatic hardware encrypted data storage
• Compatible with Windows 7, Vista (SP1,SP2), XP (SP1, SP2, SP3), 2000 (SP4), Mac OS (10.4.x-10.6.x.)
• Swivel design (so there's no cap to lose)
• Easy to use
• Five year guaranteed warranty with 24/7 customer support

Visit kingston.com to learn more.

I’m a BzzAgent and received samples. The opinions expressed are my own and are never influenced by the company.

Plum District: A Dog’s Life $40 Value

Yes, I have a dog, and yes, he drives me crazy sometimes, but that doesn’t mean I don’t love finding fun doggie toys and treats! I think this is a Plum District deal he could sink his teeth into…literally!

$20 for Online Personalized Pet (and People) Merchandise from A Dog's Life - a $40 Value

Have a special pup in your life? Or need the perfect gift for a pet-obsessed friend? A Dog’s Life has the finest all-natural and organic treats for the pooches you love.

Humans are kicking the hydrogenated, preservative-filled habit, and so should our pets. A Dog’s Life only uses premium ingredients in their dog foods, biscuits, and jerky. They also offer adorable personalized gifts, including bottles of wine with labels featuring that special canine.

A DOG'S LIFE

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